

Foreplay isn’t just for the bedroom and it isn’t just about what you do with your hands and tongue or another appendage. It’s about setting the stage and making your partner feel desired. Whisper dirty things in your partner’s ear throughout the day. Simple lines like: “You look incredibly sexy right now” “I had a really hot dream about you last night” “Tell me what you want me to do to you right now.” “I want you” But here is my note: if you haven’t really done something like this before and you pull a line like, “I have a surprise for you tonight, but you’ll have to undress me to find out what it is.” Your partner may not know how to react or may be caught off guard. The things you try to seduce your partner with, do without any expectation. The worst feeling in the world is trying something new and then getting frustrated and rejected because you don’t receive the reaction you want. Let your partner be in the space that they are in without the “If I do x, then they should do y” mentality. Give and give some more and be ok with not receiving in the moment. It will fill your partner’s cup and trust me, you will receive in a big way when your partner is ready ❤️🔥. Keep at it 😉