Exploring your sexuality through consensual sexual experienc..
Added 2023-09-11 13:51:29 +0000 UTCExploring your sexuality through consensual sexual experiences with someone you trust can be both erotic and unnerving. Baby Girl and I have always had open communication in all aspects of our lives, but especially when it comes to sex. For instance, I enjoy anal stimulation and penetration. BG has never explored that with a man before. As we were fiddling around with BG’s strap on, I asked her to use it to put pressure on my asshole. As she pressed more firmly, I became more erect and she became more aroused. This particular play time was all about me and my pleasure, but she never felt like it was “only about me” in terms of being denied sex or not being able to “get hers”. These sorts of positive sexual encounters can help you figure out whether you enjoy things such as giving and receiving oral sex, have any interest in anal sex, prefer intercourse to other types of sex, or want sexual activity that doesn't include penetration. Try opening a conversation about sexual play with your partner by discussing something you're curious about. You can say something as innocuous as, "I heard about nipple play leading to orgasms for some people and want to try it. Tonight, can we grab some massage oil and try different types of nipple play?" Phrasing what you want as an invitation to explore, rather than a denial of intercourse, may help your partner more readily accept your invitation for sexual exploration.
