I’m often asked about being a Dom and the difference between..
Added 2023-09-11 23:40:55 +0000 UTCI’m often asked about being a Dom and the difference between dominance and control. The difference between a dominant man and a controlling man is whether or not he cares about consent. Consent to dominance must be given by the submissive. She must want to be dominated by him as much as he wants her to submit to him. Control does not require consent, and a controlling partner is likely to be an abusive partner, while a dominant partner is more likely to be a loving partner. Dominance is based purely on trust and comes from a heart space, a loving space. Control comes from a fear based space. Nobody has time for fear or mistrust!
